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Snapshots of Life in the City

West Meets East

Portrait Gallery in DC

 

Tourists dragging suitcases are just part of the background in downtown DC. But sometimes a particular tourist will stand out.
 
A small, middle-aged woman had just exited the metro station, toting a suitcase that surely was heavier than she was and almost as tall. She stopped and leaned on her bag to look at her cell phone and would look across the street, then back at the phone, then across the street and so on.
 
I stopped. "Do you need help? Are you lost?"
 
"I think I'm ok. The hotel seems to be just a couple of blocks from here," she said. "I'm in town for the NA Conference."
 
I looked at her quizzically and she said, "Narcotics Anonymous. There will be thousands attending – I am excited to meet as many people as I can."
 
I nodded. "Well, the convention center is not far from here," I said as I gestured in its direction.
 
She smiled and then again looked across the street. "I am from the west coast and have never been to DC. We don't have buildings like those!"
 
I looked where she was looking and of course, nothing looked special to me.
 
"Welcome to the nation's capitol! You'll be seeing a lot of buildings like that for sure!"
 
"Thanks for being so friendly – I really appreciate it," she said as she waved and dragged that enormous bag down the street. I watched her go, hoping that her convention would be everything she wanted it to be, and that she would find time to see more of the city.
 
And I would try to stay alert and be appreciative of the unique beauty of my daily environment.

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The Cellist's Curious Bag

Cellist warming up at the Kennedy Center.

 

I love classical music and so it's no surprise that I frequent orchestra performances at the Kennedy Center. A creature of habit, I sit in a certain section of the music hall, enjoy the familiarity of surroundings, and feel any tension disappear as the performance gets underway. Perfect.
 
But at a recent show, there were no seats available in my favorite section so I wound up sitting in the second row of the orchestra level, knowing the sound wouldn't be as good and that I would be very/too close to the stage.
 
However, once I found my seat I became taken with this new bird's eye view. The musicians were just feet away from me as they organized themselves, tuned their instruments, and set up their music sheets in anticipation of the performance soon to begin. I watched them with interest. I felt like an insider.
 
Almost immediately, one of the cellists caught my attention.
 
He had a kind of artsy, mostly black canvas bag hanging from the neck of his cello, resting between the cello and his body, discretely hidden from general view. I never would have seen it from my usual seat. (See picture, shown above.) 
 
I wondered what was in that bag, why he would need or want it hanging there. When I later googled "accessories for cellos" I only found mostly large items such as a case, strings, bow, and endpin rests. But rosin and polishers were also listed. Maybe he carried rosin, I don't know, or maybe he carried a snack, breath mints, or cigarettes!  
 
For whatever reason, this quirky bag of the musician captured my attention and provided a new light on the show. I normally think of an orchestra as a group, a literal synthesis of individuals working together. But while the whole of the orchestra is definitely greater than the sum of its parts, the parts are interesting and can be charming in their own right if we look through that lens too.

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A "Hidden" Garden Treasure

Mary Livingston Ripley Garden, DC

 

Several years ago, a friend asked to meet at the Mary Livingston Ripley Garden on the national mall. I had no idea where it was, which seemed weird as I had walked that area frequently over the years, plus had repeatedly visited the buildings nearby. (This garden is nestled between the Hirshhorn and Smithsonian Museums.)
 
When I walked into the garden, immediately I was entranced by the lushness of the trees and the variety of flowers in full bloom. The garden path snaked around revealing a much larger garden than the entrance portended, much to my delight.
 
Dedicated on May 25, 1988, the inscription on the welcoming plaque says: "This garden was created by the Smithsonian Institution Women's Committee to honor their founder and friend."
 
Soon after that initial encounter, visiting the park became a regular stop for me. I appreciate watching (and smelling) the naturally evolving landscape, seeing the birds flying around the fountain, and sitting a while to take a break. Plus what a treat to sometimes talk to the knowledgeable and enthusiastic staff, busy keeping the grounds in tip-top shape.
 
I'm extremely grateful to the women who imagined - and then realized - such a special way to honor their friend Mary. So many people benefit from their efforts and surely will continue to do so for generations to come.

 

Well done, ladies! 

 

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A Very Short Relationship

7 & H Streets, DC's Chinatown

 

On a brilliantly sunny Monday morning, I approached the corner of 7 & H Streets, just missing the WALK signal. There was a crowd growing there, waiting to cross. As I removed my jacket, a woman pleasantly said, "Hot day today," and I agreed, nodding.
 
"I hope the weather is this good on Wednesday - it's my birthday," she said.
 
"Do you have plans for a nice birthday?" I asked. (I assumed that she did.)
 
"Not really. This is always a bad week every year. My husband died several years ago today." She paused. "And my grandchild died two days after my birthday."
 
"This is terrible!" I turned to really look at her. She was no longer a stranger.
 
"That child was only seven months old."
 
We crossed the street and paused because clearly she was about to go down H Street and I was headed up 7th. I looked at her sad and dazed expression a moment and, as she started to walk away, I said, "I will think of you on Wednesday, wishing you a happy birthday." She thanked me and disappeared in the crowd.
 
And so our (maybe) five-minute relationship played out.
 
I think of this woman from time to time, reminding me how we never know what anyone else is going through. And despite the frustrations of daily life, I need to be more patient and yielding as I walk among strangers on the street.

 

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What is THAT?

Typewriter Eraser, Scale X at NGA Sculpture Garden in DC. 

 

The large sculpture called Typewriter Eraser, Scale X* resides near an entrance to the grounds of the National Gallery of Art Sculpture Garden.  It is fun to pause there just to overhear reactions from visitors who are seeing it for the first time.
 
"What is that?"
 
"I've never seen anything like that before!"
 
Children stand there looking confused, asking questions. Typically, adults laugh and say something like, "I'm old enough to know the answer," and then they go down a mental alley first saying it's an eraser for a typewriter, then explaining what a typewriter is, and then why a typewriter would need an eraser.
 
For some reason, I find these exchanges funny and engaging and that's why I pause at the sculpture, especially when I see a group approaching.
 
When I first saw this sculpture many years ago I wondered why an artist would use an eraser as a model for a sculpture in the first place. It seemed so mundane, if not strange. But who knew that years later so many people would quickly get engaged in the sculpture and in so many different ways. Self included.

 

*Sculpted by Oldenburg & Bruggen (1999)

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Quaint, Pretty: It's Cherry Blossom Time

Cherry blossom trees at the National Arboretum in DC

 

It's cherry blossom time in DC!
 
I have witnessed 22 cherry blossom seasons as a local resident and have found this time of year quaint: from the weeks leading up to it, the time itself while nature awakens the trees, and even the ending phase leading to the final loss of the blossoms.
 
This time of year presents a rare opportunity to bring locals together with predictable, simple conversations and usually all are smiling.
 
"When do you think the cherry blossoms will be at peak?"
 
"Where do you go to see the cherry blossoms?" (This usually implies not the Tidal Basin since it will be jammed with tourists.)
 
"Will you get a chance to see them this year or will you be out of town?"
 
And despite having seen the cherry blossoms for decades now, I easily fall into the excitement that only this time of year can bring. It's just too sweet, too nice, too special to pass up. So every year, out I go, to walk around smiling for a few hours while inspecting the blossoms and taking a few pictures.
 
This year I went to the National Arboretum with a friend, not one of my typical haunts for this cherry blossom appreciation. It was sunny, windy and just stunning to walk around that park. Hardly anyone else was there which was a bonus for us to peacefully contemplate nature.
 
So I fulfilled my annual ritual and I feel satisfied. I am certain that sometime early next year as winter abates a bit, the local conversation will turn to discussing when peak bloom is expected and where the best place is to see the cherry blossoms. There is a kind of comfort in knowing that.

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January 2: Also a Holiday

People take a walk on Christmas Day on the
National Mall, perhaps to reduce stress.

 

I celebrate January 2 each year.  
 
This date means that all of the major fall holidays, starting with Thanksgiving, are over for another year. It's a kind of Holiday From The Holidays. Hurray!
 
Some people will not choose to celebrate my self-proclaimed holiday – they may actually approach it as more of a funeral, a date indicating that the holidays are gone and they are sad about it. 
 
But I daresay that many of us find the holiday season very stressful, even if one or two of the holidays are meaningful. At this time of year, we hear that suicide rates go up, that people can get stranded in airports for days just to be somewhere on one particular day, and we are reminded of loved ones who are no longer with us. It is a complicated time with little time to take a breather.
 
But then arrives January 2 and you can say that you have done all that you could do, that it's now time to get back to normal and not dwell on the many stresses of the past two months. I say that is a darn good reason to pause and celebrate (maybe quietly and/or with a nap).
 
Happy January 2!

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Metro Escalators: A Stage All Their Own

Typical escalator inside the DC metro system.

 

The escalators at metro subway stations provide an unusual stage by which to "people watch."
 
I'd say most of us hold onto the handrail or our hand hovers above the handrail if we decide to cautiously walk while the escalator is moving. Some people just hold on and stand in order to read a book or newspaper during their trip.
 
But some people are so nimble and confident!
 
I have seen people walk (or run!) down a long escalator ride texting on their phones (ergo using both hands) and not looking at anything but that phone! There are some who carry a small child positioned on a hip and jog the escalator. 
 
How can they do that, I would marvel. What if they trip? It must happen sometimes – mustn't it? They surely wouldn't survive such a fall or would be seriously hurt.
 
Then one day I was standing and holding the handrail on an up escalator, boring normal stuff, I know. But out of nowhere, the escalator came to a crashing STOP. I guess it just suddenly broke somehow. I squeezed the handrail but it was reflexive as I was fine. I was startled and looked around.
 
Everyone was looking at everyone else but we were all in one piece. (I am guessing there were no acrobats using the escalators at that time, thank goodness.)  Within about a minute, before I could start walking up, the escalator started moving again.  So I stood and patiently waited to get to the top.
 
I guess I felt validated to be a boring, cautious rider. I was safe and happy and just a little startled. But, weirdly, as I walked home, I felt uneasy thinking about those who take a whole lot for granted, and what that sudden stop might have done to their lives.

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"I got my life back!"

Man in electronic wheelchair inside a metro car 

 

A man, sporting a suit and a bowler hat, rolled into an elevator as I held the door for him. He evoked an earlier era as he greeted me pleasantly and politely. The whole time he smiled so broadly that it just had to hurt his face.
 
"You are in a good mood," I said.
 
"This chair is everything! I have had it about a year now and have almost worn out the wheels already because I use it so much. It's everything!" And he leaned over to point out the tread on the small wheels. I also noticed a lot of "personalization" of his vehicle, for example, large prominently placed rear-view mirrors, an umbrella at the ready, and a blanket on the seat back with a message.
 
"I am so glad you like it!" I said.
 
"Like it? I got my life back! I can go anywhere I want to now - and by myself!"
 
Was it possible his smile even got larger as he said that? It appeared so.
 
"Fantastic! That is wonderful!"
 
When the door opened, he engaged the motor and exited with a flourish and with some serious speed, heading to the platform to catch the subway. He was still smiling ear to ear as he turned his head side to side, weaving in and around people to get to the front car.
 
It's moments like these when a life lesson is obvious.

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Veering From My Path

"Angels Unawares" statue on Catholic U campus in DC.

Over the years, I have walked a certain path when I'm on the Catholic University of America campus. It's a tree-intensive and beautiful campus, usually quiet and serene.
 
A few weeks ago, a friend and I were scheduled for a guided tour of the Basilica which is on the campus and I knew how to get there but as we walked up the hill from the metro stop, I could see "my" path was pulled apart by construction. It threw me off! There was no choice but to walk a different way.
 
This seeming annoyance turned into a gift.
 
As we navigated our way, we happened upon the "Angels Unawares" statue depicted above. In short, happening upon this statue unexpectedly took my breath away.
 
The determination of the immigrants, people of limited means who had few belongings in tow, were headed to a new life together. They were young and old and male and female – and they were clearly united in their meaningful journey.
 
This experience was a good reminder to me, who has lived here quite a few years now, to intentionally veer from my normal walking patterns because who knows what exists just a block or two off-course?  I just might find myself again staring at another wonderful statue or site that impacts my day so palpably.

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